What happens when you realize that where you have been isn’t where you want to go?  For many of us who are looking to reboot our lives whether it’s from retirement or some other significant life event, there is a desire to move forward into something new and a draw to capitalize on what you know.  It can take a long time…in my case four years…to become comfortable saying no to the things that are in my comfort zone but too much so.  Give yourself time, be gentle but firm in asking “is this really what I want to be doing with my life?”  If the answer is “no, but…”, listen to the reasons that are keeping in you stuck and work, ideally with a trained coach, to explore keys to shifting your actions towards a different future.